Break-Up With Yourself

Many are those times that we fear letting go of an expired version of ourselves because we simply are comfortable with just being that.

The times we hold on tight on what we used to be instead of dwelling on what we should be, and that is sad because we get toxic .

As we start a new month, I hope you will be in a position to shake your norm a bit and break up with your old self because it’s quite important.

“But how am I gonna do that?” You ask.

1. Go back to scratch

-Your old toxic habits are not needed in this next phase, go back and keenly check on yourself and take inventories of what should be added or eliminated from your old ways for you to progress forward.

That nasty attitude, pride, ego, jealousy, insecurities, procrastination, laziness are not needed in this phase, let go of them, honey. They’ll keep costing you so much.

ACTIVITY: Maybe this is the time to think hard on what toxic traits you’ve been carrying along and make adjustments.

2. Dare to feel uncertain and unsure

-Look at it this way, imagine crossing a river in a foreign land, you simply are unaware of what awaits you on the other side, but you have to cross the river for you to reach your destination . Does that make sense? Well, it does for me.

3. Return to a place of faith

-So you’ve crossed this river, unaware of what waits for you on the other side,but you know what? Your faith is still intact because you are hopeful that you will reach the final destination unhurt. Learn to operate in that place of faith. Execute what you’ve always wanted to do and have faith that everything will work out just fine.

4. Seek fresh knowledge,fresh strategy, and fresh creativity

-Keep learning,find new ways of operating your day-to-day activities. Dont under estimate the small positive things you do on a daily.

‘ Hard work of laying down your life, will constantly yield beauty that you can’t fathom.’